Hecate and Kali
by Em
(WI)
I would have sworn I was Metis. After taking the quiz honestly, I now see that I 'wanted' to be the sophisticate but never found any wardrobe peace -- because my inner goddess was not being heard. Quite indicative of my struggle in this later life. I have such a driving desire to BE my true self, as long as it was the self I chose -- not was.
It's funny, because Hecate and Kali describe my youth. My free and happy years. The older I got, the more I had to 'become' someone. All I ended up with is a poor caricature of someone else. I am sure that I will have a better journey into the future knowing I am who I am and that's okay.
Kali/Sophia/Aphrodite
by Christine
(Ontario, Canada)
Hi there,
This is a great indicator. I have just turned 53 this year and find that the younger woman's clothing while trendy is a bit too young for me. I am glad I took this test. Hair, makeup and fashion are a whole new ball game after 50. I don't want to look ridiculous at my age.
Thanks for the opportunity!!
Christine
Thank you for participating.
I Am More Than One: Bohemian/Trend Setter/Sports Woman
by Carly Bak
(Inverness FL)
Iam a Singer/Songwriter so I tend to dress the part. I like designing my own clothing.
I also am an avid outdoors woman and do kayak tours and rentals on the Withlacoochee River near Inverness FL -- Soggy Bottom Tours
Editor's note: A well-rounded woman may well integrate several styles, depending on mood on occasion. Good for you. Unfortunately, the links stopped working, and I had to remove them.
Chart Says Metis. That Is Way Off the Mark
by Peggy Warner
(Shelton, Washington USA)
I will turn 51 this year, and I still have no fashion ability. I was raised with 5 brothers and my parents both worked. We mostly did outdoor stuff -- hunting, fishing, camping etc.
I was a horsewoman for some years and still like the outdoors. I learned a little about makeup but rarely wear it as my skin is so oily that it just slips down to a line on my jawline no matter what I do.
My hair is long and straight and brown. I am a plus size person. The upside is that I don't look 50. LOL. I have worn Jeans and T-Shirts my whole life except odd moments when I actually had a dress that I thought looked somewhat decent on me.
I haven't owned a dress since the '80's. Now my husband, who, strangely enough does not care about his appearance, thinks that I shouldn't care either if my pants or shirt have stains, tears or are so worn that they look like I found them in a rag bag.
Most of my clothes ARE worn and have lost most of their form. Some are hand-me-downs from older shorter lady relatives and not my style at all. I basically have no money to spend on clothing these days, as I am home with on the job injury and we are raising two grandkids with another on the way.
I would go to Goodwill but they don't have much for larger ladies clothing that doesn't already look like mine. I know I need a style that will hold up under outdoors, indoors and still have the go anywhere look. Can anyone give me some advice??? I need things that are appropriate for me and my age but I am terrible about picking out the right things.
Hi Peggy --
Thanks for letting me know that the questions did not identify your inner style. I wonder if there's an inner sophisticated you who wants to be recognized.
You are right that thrift stores are one way to try out styles without a huge investment. Prices in some of these have crept up, too.
It sounds like you need some go-everywhere slacks. I've always found slacks hard to find in good condition, used.
Have you considered khaki and other poplin and twill washable slacks? These often come in a variety of colors, including navy and black. You can look for these on sale in many online department stores.
You might check out the "Looks We Love" selection at Avenue/Jessica London. I am wondering if All About Color, Black Magic, Mad for Plaid, or Striped Statement are outfits that might appeal to your need for versatility. Many of their products are well-priced, and keep an eye on frequent special. For example, this offer expires in 14 days:Shop Jessica London and take $20 off any $60 order, $25 off $75, or $30 off any order $100 or more using code JLA5843! .
There's nothing wrong with wearing shirts or tops, if this is your comfortable style. A blazer or more boxy-fitting jacket adds polish.
Two websites I like that focus specifically on plus-size women are Curvy Counselor and Trendy Plus-Size Clothes.
If you have nice legs, you can show them off in skirts or jumpers.
I wear little make-up, due to skin allergies. Sometimes, a bit of eyebrow pencil, power blush, and lipstick can do the trick for me.
As for hair, this also is outside my area of expertise. There are websites where you can try out hairstyles by uploading a headshot photo of yourself. You can crop your photo using the free Picasa download.
Just because you are plus-size, don't feel that you have to wear baggy clothing.
Best wishes discovering your personal best style. I am sorry that the quiz was not helpful.
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Athena with A Touch of Flaire (Sexy Bohemian)
This is well done! And fun...
Baubo & Athena
by Sandy
(Manchester, TN)
I am so tired of going shopping and not knowing what is acceptable for an older women.
I am not ready to look like an old lady.
I am also short and petite and can't find clothes that fit me except in the teen age department. I don't want to wear baggy pants.
Please Help!!!
Thanks,
Sandy
Hi Sandy.
You have my empathy. I have a long-time friend who is very petite and also finds shopping challenging.
No one is in a better position than you to help yourself.
What are your daily activities? What potential outfits do you already have? You will find basic wardrobe planning steps here.
Preferring sexy and romantic clothing may present special challenges. Ruffles and lace may end up looking little-girlish on a petite figure.
My suggestion is stick to svelte, sexy clothing. Make every embellishment or accessory count, without overdoing it.
Plunging necklines are in, and wrap-dresses have returned. The sheath also is appropriate.
Wide-legged pants, currently in style, may not be your friend. Try for the less exaggerated styles.
Shorter jackets also will accentuate your figure, rather than longer blazers and duster-type sweaters which may emphasize your smaller height.
I hope you find these suggestions appropriate -- because your inner wisdom and the comments of those around you may be more helpful.
Athena
by Aless
(Adelaide, Australia)
I have Athena(strongly) with a touch each of Aphrodite and Metis. I'd love to BE Hecate & Kali, but I just can't let go enough.
I have a question about my goddess type's styling.
I know that I need to accessorize, and do have quite a lot of pieces, but feel actually uncomfortable wearing them. Necklaces are my downfall. I'll put one on then immediately reject it.
I buy pieces I love, but when it comes to actually wearing them, I chicken out!! Even my flamboyant DSis has told me that I need to get into accessories -- she wears up to 4 neck pieces at one time. Both of us are plus sized. She's quite a lot bigger than I am but loves to call attention to herself.
So, how do I overcome this fear of wearing too much(apart from a watch, wedding ring, Celtic love ring, and earringswhich I am never seen without?
Hi Adelaide --
It sounds as if you regularly some favorite pieces, so it sounds as if you are on your way.
Accessories are not just the extras. They include shoes, handbags, hats, watches, wedding rings, and earrings. Scarves, mufflers, and shawls we add for warmth also are accessories.
Perhaps you can build up some different colored shoes or handbags. Wristlet purses makes it easy to conceal your must-have cash and cards in a larger, possibly flasher handbag.
Because you usually wear earrings, try switching these around to vary your look.
What kind of accessories do you think you ought to want wear. Just because someone else likes necklaces and they look good on her does not mean that you have to become a clone.
She has her style; you have yours.
Habits can be challenging to acquire and even harder to break.
Keep trying out new things. Be kind to yourself when you aren't consistent. Then keep trying, just as you would with an exercise program on which you'd lapsed.
Thanks for writing.
Sophia
by Betty
(Missouri)
For years, I didn't have a weight problem and, because I'm short, I migrated toward simple sheath dresses and suits.
For casual, I love jeans. The big problem is that I'm now overweight and it's very difficult for me to lose it because exercise is almost impossible due to a disability and numerous injuries over the past decade (fractured both ankles, broke some toes, lower back injury, head injury, and cerebral palsy).
Hi Betty.
As Betty Davis reportedly said, Old age is not for sissies. I'm sorry that so many things have happened to you.
It sounds like you are making good clothing choices. Many online retailers specialize in plus-size clothing, including several Fashion After 50 affiliates.
Wishing you all the best.
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